How To Give Your Life Meaning….Instantly

Give your life meaning - lend a hand - lend your resources
“I shall pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again” ~Mahatma Gandhi
Written by Kevin Tyler Smith. You can follow me on Twitter or Facebook
It was an overcast day in April when I embarked on a journey that figuratively and literally took me to a place I wasn’t sure I was prepared for.
This journey took me to the stark realization of how desperately my community and the world is in need. Of how much the world needs the hands of the able and how much people need love.
That Spring day, my father and I were joined by a band of brothers to restore the habitat of an elderly widow’s dwelling that had severely fallen to neglect. Her neglect was not voluntary but circumstance.
The main thing I wasn’t prepared for was the condition of her house. Thousands of questions flooded my mind of how could someone live in such squalor?
Clarity Prevails
Thankfully through the mentoring of our band of brothers and the fellowship we formed that day, clarity prevailed. I was convinced that some people, through no fault of their own, have different responses to the cards they have been dealt.
The Connection
We diligently worked that day from sun up to sun down. On hand, we had just about every every area of expertise, from landscaping, carpentry to electricians. I wasn’t sure how everyone would be able to work efficiently together without getting in each other’s way.
But you know what? We made it work. At day’s end, this lady had a brand new house practically.
Through this experience of getting my hands dirty for the cause, something else came to fruition. This was the connection my father and I formed. We had never worked side by side on such a project that would affect someone’s life in a very positive way. To me, this was earth moving – so powerful to form a unique bond with my father while changing someone else’s life. It’s an experience I will carry with me for the rest of my life. I’m sure Dad will too….Very cool.
The Unique Intangible Rewards Of Volunteering
Donating your time enriches the human spirit. It shows generosity and willingness to be part of something good even if you are working full days and have personal obligations of your own.
Its time to become aware and conscious of the benefits of giving of your time. You can be like me and walk away with a very rewarding and life changing experience:
1. You Become Part of a Group - Volunteering will allow you to meet new people who work and volunteer for a certain cause. Not only are you providing others the opportunity to avail of your help and support for free, but you are also gaining the benefit for times when you may need the help of others. According to studies, volunteers also receive help from their own groups or volunteer circles because the act of giving and generosity is exchanged within the group. You can find some of the most genuine individuals in a volunteer group. You also get to reap the rewards of open opportunities for business, work, and social fellowship.
2. Life Has Meaning - Volunteering means that you believe in a certain cause and act toward it. Your life will suddenly have a renewed meaning translating to personal positive habits making you a more disciplined, helpful and sensitive individual. You get to know how other people feel in certain conditions and get to offer help whenever needed. As a volunteer, you let go of your own personal comfort and privileges to give to others. You become a guiding light to people who are not as fortunate as you.
3. You Avoid Boredom - Volunteering allows you to go through several programs and exercises which can easily get rid of boredom. Usually, rich and retired individuals love to volunteer because it gives them a sense of capacity and lets them work during time when they feel obsolete or bored. You can engage in several activities like feeding programs, putting out flyers and posters or holding concerts and other endeavors for your cause. Being assigned to big tasks and traveling abroad in other countries is a possibility as well.
4. You Enjoy Family Time More – Compassion becomes a habit. Because of this compassion exercised in volunteer activities and programs it’s only natural to translate to your family relationships. In regards to your family and friends, you can also bring more of them into the network and share the joy of giving and generosity. This provides an opportunity for you to teach and educate them on the meaningful values by volunteering.
The Ultimate – Courageous Volunteers Saving Our Lives
The World Needs You
I don’t have the answers to ALL that’s needed locally or globally nor do I have a list of every organization in the world but I’m giving you a good place to start right here with Volunteer Match.
Here are some of my personal favorites:
Hands On Disaster Response - http://hodr.org
Habitat For Humanity - http://www.habitat.org
Animal Shelters - http://www.animalshelter.org
Healthcare Volunteer - http://healthcarevolunteer.com
American Red Cross - http://www.redcross.org
Foster Parenting - http://www.aspiranet.org
Volunteer Firefighter Support - http://www.nvfc.org
Nobody ever said volunteering was easy. It can be tough sometimes but it is definitely a fulfilling adventure.
Renew your life’s meaning today.
Lend Your Time – Lend Your Resources – Spread Your Love – The World Needs You
I would love to hear about some of your rewarding volunteer moments? More importantly, what did you learn from the experience?
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I really agree that coming together to help people in need is life changing. We all need help at sometime or another. I am getting married this summer and am amazed at all the people who are volunteering to help in the process. It brings me so much gratitude. There are so many ways to help and it always leads to healing and love! Thanks for this post.
Peace,
Teresa
Kevin Tyler Smith Reply:
June 5th, 2010 at 10:53 am
Teresa,
Congratulations on getting married.
I’m thrilled to hear about the contributions of volunteers playing a role toward that very important day. It puts a smile on my face. Where would we be without them?
I wish you all the best.
Take care,
Kevin
A really powerful post you’ve written here Kevin. Volunteering is one of the most humbling services we humans can do for ourselves & each other I agree. I’m really touched that you and your Dad got to share the experience together as you worked alongside each other to change someone else’s life. Big happy feelings coming to you. Excellent.
Have a wonderful day
Anna
Kevin Tyler Smith Reply:
June 6th, 2010 at 2:38 am
Thanks Anna. I’m glad you enjoyed this post.
It was hard work but very rewarding.
Funny thing, as an aside:
One thing I realized that day that I did not mention in my post was how physically strong my dad is. Some of the work required quite a bit of brawn and my dad stepped in with no hesitation (thats one strong chap).
I appreciate your feedback Anna.
Stay growing,
Kevin
Hey Kevin
As soon as I saw your post I felt drawn to read it.
As an international volunteer spanning several decades I totally endorse your message. To me volunteering in its purest form is true service or true love if you will. In fact I would go as far to say that one’s capacity to practice true love is the quintessence of who you are.
I appreciate your listing of some of the great reasons for volunteering. However I always say “why not do good for goodness sake?”
I love Martin Luther King’s comment that “Life’s most urgent question is: What are you doing for the sake of others?”
Through my volunteer efforts perhaps the most profound experiences I have had caused me to feel in my heart and know in my head that “hey I am in the right place at the right time doing exactly what I was born to do”. Even reflecting on it now, overwhelms me with a deep sense of meaning and satisfaction.
Finally, it was probably my Dad more than anyone that shaped my volunteer instincts as a little boy, as I helped him mow the lawns and fix the homes of our elderly neighbors. And all for the sheer love of it. My Dad has since passed, but his volunteer spirit continues to burn strong in my heart.
Good on you Kevin.
Warm Regards
Paul Saver