A Beautiful Plan To Design A Positive Soul

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought”  ~Buddha

Written by Kevin Tyler Smith. You can follow me on Twitter or Facebook

From the very early stages of my life when I first became cognizant of who I was and up to this present day, I’ve been in the midst of a positive soul. Not only positive but an amiable soul (‘soul’ as in person).

I feel so very honored and fortunate to live under the same blue sky as this person. This wonderful being is my mom.

Through her, I’ve witnessed the benefits of a positive mindset and “paying it forward” through good deeds and how its returned to her exponentially.

There is a certain grace in her aura, she exudes optimism and her positive attitude is infectous. As a matter of fact, I do not think I have ever seen her not being positive even though I know she has had her share of setbacks. She is sunshine personified. A true guiding light and one of the most pleasant people you will ever know.

These very traits in positivity are almost as much learned as they are inherent. If you want to reap the benefits of being positive it is important you understand that the “every man for himself” mentality of the world is the perfect segue to a negative heart. It’s no wonder so many people live in a state of misery. Most of this can be remedied by changing a simple perspective….your attitude. Here’s how:

Changing the paradigm – renewing mental inclination

The attitude traits of positivity and optimism have a way of presenting you with many rewarding opportunities in life. I’ve seen it first hand therefore I know it works. Adopting an attitude of positivity forces the laws of nature to embolden you to an awareness of gain you ordinarily would not have seen.

Unfortunately, setbacks can run interference to those laws of nature. It has never been said that life is fair (with ”fair’ being held captive to it’s subjectivity) and the truth is,  it is a matter of mental perspective as to how you process these challenges and receive intangible preparation to overcome them.

Here are a few rules to understand and implement in a beautiful plan to your positivity:

Rule #1: Setbacks Are Temporary

You have to remind yourself that even though setbacks and challenges in life are inevitable, these are also only temporary. After you have found the ways to get through the tough times, you will become a stronger and more experienced individual. Think of life’s setbacks as means to personal growth. Through it, you will gain more knowledge than you had prior. Setbacks may last only a few hours, days or weeks but the bottom line is that these will fade after a period of time. It is paramount to stay focused on your goals during this period of time.

“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall” ~Confucius

Rule #2: Motivate Thyself

Change your disposition. Don’t think about it, just do it. Think of the different things that inspire you providing the incentive to open your mind to a psyche receptive to life changing experiences.

If you’re having a hard day at work:

• Think of getting a relaxing massage or
• Focus on the added incentives that come with finishing a task.
• Wake up in the morning and play some upbeat music to rev up your psyche and be ready for the daily tasks.
• Take time to read inspirational quotes or listen to inspirational messages by very important people in your life to stay positive.
• Try to find something meaningful in all the things you do.

Rule #3: Eradicate Disbelief Of Your Present Fortune

This comes down to the “grass is always greener on the other side” mentality. There will always be someone wishing they were in your shoes (figuratively of course). They want what you have. Your reality is coveted and given this perception of your reality from the outside looking in, it is quite possible you have all that you need.

Instead of counting the things your life lacks, take the time to be thankful for all the opportunities, privileges and fortunes you already enjoy.  Always have a grateful heart and believe that you have everything that you really need.  Live simply, live humbly.

Rule #4: Enlist An Accountability Partner

An accountability partner is someone who can help you stay on track to designing your life and mindset by design as opposed to default.  This person is a valuable asset whenever you feel down and unmotivated. The role of your accountability partner is to listen and encourage you to feel better about yourself and your situation. This person will remind you about the good things that you enjoy on a day-to-day basis, such as having a roof over your head, having a job (even if you do not fully like it) or having a great family.

“There is no such thing as a self-made man. You will reach your goals only with the help of others” ~ George Shinn

Reciprocity plays a significant role also. Not only do you receive but also give. Be there for your accountability partner during times of needed encouragement. Remember, this is not a time to commiserate but to help each other stay optimistic. By doing so, you are also empowering yourself.

Rule #5: Stay Learning Through The Life You Live

You can’t change bad memories, but you can learn from experience. Do not think of a bad past as something that should continually burden you at present or in future endeavors. Think of yourself as an upgraded version of what was because of what you went through. Grab the chance to learn from your mistakes and vow to do better the next time. Be positive that you will be successful or accomplish past tasks better. A true commitment to this philosophy will ensure you  experience triumphs in your life beyond your wildest expectations.

You have much more control than you think. Will you choose to be positive?

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*photo credit: Robyn Hooz-UK’til friday